Comments on: I don’t wanna talk about it http://judifree.com/2009/01/22/i-dont-wanna-talk-about-it/ Tue, 31 Jan 2012 19:52:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Kelli http://judifree.com/2009/01/22/i-dont-wanna-talk-about-it/#comment-1752 Mon, 26 Jan 2009 18:17:05 +0000 http://judifree.com/?p=796#comment-1752 Hi Judi!
Curt and I are so, so excited for you and Mark and this baby! Obviously I am a little late on making a comment about what you said but I thought I would throw in my two cents. I think that people are just trying to connect with you about the problems that you had getting pregnant and now the fact that you are having a baby so they say comments that you might think are annoying or offensive. I dont think that people are doing it out of spite or hate, maybe some are, but the majority I think are just trying to make conversation or connect with you, encourage you, etc. All that to say, I put my money on you being hormonal.
For the past week I have been meditating on 1 Corinthians 13. I thought it kinda went perfectly with what you are dealing with. I totally understand where you are coming from with the struggles of wanting to be pregnant and now that you are you just dont want the fear and anxiety….(well I dont understand the now being pregnant part) but remember, its still Gods gift to you. You have to trust him with everything still and just let peoples comments roll off your back. He will take care of you.
We are praying for a healthy wonderful pregnancy for you and cant wait to see that baby someday!

Kelli

]]> By: Brandy http://judifree.com/2009/01/22/i-dont-wanna-talk-about-it/#comment-1748 Mon, 26 Jan 2009 05:43:44 +0000 http://judifree.com/?p=796#comment-1748 p.s. I’ve heard people say that when someone asks to touch your belly you should ask to touch their nose. :lol: I read an article in a magazine once (obviously a parenting one) about a woman who rubbed another womans belly after she rubbed her pg belly w/o asking. (follow that?) :lol: The other woman was COMPLETELY offended. Seriously now…. how is that not different!

I will say I am VERY anal AFTER the baby comes about people touching the baby. Pretty sure I turn into a complete psycho. :lol:

]]> By: Brandy http://judifree.com/2009/01/22/i-dont-wanna-talk-about-it/#comment-1747 Mon, 26 Jan 2009 05:40:02 +0000 http://judifree.com/?p=796#comment-1747 There is no rule that says you have to share ANYTHING about your pg with people….especially the negative people. ;-)

With each baby I did realize that little old ladies that wanted to talk or touch my belly were really just missing what they had such a long time ago. With my first I didn’t let anyone who wasn’t a good friend come near my belly, but by the third I was letting strangers (read: cute little old ladies) touch my belly. :lol:

This first pg with just the two of you will be something you look back on for YEARS to come. You will miss the intimacy of it all….something just the two of you can share without any distractions (like other little kiddos).

The only thing I want to hear about (besides the fun cravings and such!) is when that baby starts movin! That was always my favorite part. I tear up just thinking about that awesome feeling. :D

]]> By: Lisa http://judifree.com/2009/01/22/i-dont-wanna-talk-about-it/#comment-1746 Mon, 26 Jan 2009 02:46:10 +0000 http://judifree.com/?p=796#comment-1746 I totally understand you Judi! Awesome that you can speak/write that out, and it should be something totally easy to respect. I’m with you on the hands off the belly, too. It’s funny it seems to be total strangers who do it more often then actual friends!
Nothing but positive vibes coming from bitter cold Wisconsin :) We’re keeping you guys in our prayers!

]]> By: Jenni Catron http://judifree.com/2009/01/22/i-dont-wanna-talk-about-it/#comment-1745 Mon, 26 Jan 2009 00:57:26 +0000 http://judifree.com/?p=796#comment-1745 You don’t have to talk. Enjoy the moments with you, Mark and sweet baby!

]]> By: Val http://judifree.com/2009/01/22/i-dont-wanna-talk-about-it/#comment-1744 Sun, 25 Jan 2009 02:26:54 +0000 http://judifree.com/?p=796#comment-1744 Hi Judi!!

I’m just soooooo ecstatic for you and Mark. I had such a wonderful time seeing you guys at Christmas. I can’t wait to see my nephew or niece!!! You write such an interesting blog! Keep keeping us all informed on all the good stuff lol!

]]> By: Selena http://judifree.com/2009/01/22/i-dont-wanna-talk-about-it/#comment-1743 Sun, 25 Jan 2009 01:21:02 +0000 http://judifree.com/?p=796#comment-1743 Well can you tell me what you’re craving? Mexican food? Lemons? Fried and or stuffed shrimp?

Congrats!

]]> By: Mark Thomas http://judifree.com/2009/01/22/i-dont-wanna-talk-about-it/#comment-1742 Sat, 24 Jan 2009 23:46:20 +0000 http://judifree.com/?p=796#comment-1742 I kinda like Nebuchadnezzar.

]]> By: mbrage http://judifree.com/2009/01/22/i-dont-wanna-talk-about-it/#comment-1741 Sat, 24 Jan 2009 23:40:53 +0000 http://judifree.com/?p=796#comment-1741 Oh sure, he gets to touch your belly; hasn’t Mark Thomas done enough already? FWIW; I realize you have settled on Natasha or Ivan for the name but suggest you reconsider Nadia or Igor as I here your Mark is rather set on them.

]]> By: JudiFree.com http://judifree.com/2009/01/22/i-dont-wanna-talk-about-it/#comment-1740 Sat, 24 Jan 2009 03:15:25 +0000 http://judifree.com/?p=796#comment-1740 @Mark Thomas – anytime baby!

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