#1: (drum roll please) Love God Together
13 Mar
I hope that this is the obvious #1.
This is very easily overlooked in the business of life. Even romance cannot replace this.
Pray together, pray for each other, pray for your families, go to church together, serve in the church together, talk about the deep things of God, encourage each other in the Word, praise together, keep each other accountable, and on and on…
If you want to be more intimate and get on the same page, do these things. They will guide all other issues in your life. Mark and I still disagree on some theological issues, but our love for God is indisputable. You don’t have to agree about every issue or passage in the Bible, but you do need to pursue fervently after God together.
Mark and I are still learning about how to love each other more every day. We are constantly re-evaluating and balancing our life. These principles have been the same for the past 5 years to us. They have become even more important as more time goes by.



Judi, you and Mark are already such an awesome couple and it has only been 5 years! Can you imagine how awesome you guys are going to be in like 10? Thanks for these posts, they have been incredibly insightful and encouraging.
BTW…where the heck is my link?
thanks for doing these, judith
Amazing, Judi. You should write a book! I love you!